Prince of Peace and Christ Our Savior Lutheran Churches                                  March 28, 2004

Pastor Steve Geiger                                                                                      The Fifth Sunday of Lent

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Luke 20:9-19

 

9 He went on to tell the people this parable: “A man planted a vineyard, rented it to some farmers and went away for a long time. 10 At harvest time he sent a servant to the tenants so they would give him some of the fruit of the vineyard. But the tenants beat him and sent him away empty-handed. 11 He sent another servant, but that one also they beat and treated shamefully and sent away empty-handed. 12 He sent still a third, and they wounded him and threw him out.

13 “Then the owner of the vineyard said, ‘What shall I do? I will send my son, whom I love; perhaps they will respect him.’

14 “But when the tenants saw him, they talked the matter over. ‘This is the heir,’ they said. ‘Let’s kill him, and the inheritance will be ours.’ 15 So they threw him out of the vineyard and killed him.

“What then will the owner of the vineyard do to them? 16 He will come and kill those tenants and give the vineyard to others.”

When the people heard this, they said, “May this never be!”

17 Jesus looked directly at them and asked, “Then what is the meaning of that which is written:

”‘The stone the builders rejected

has become the capstone’? 18 Everyone who falls on that stone will be broken to pieces, but he on whom it falls will be crushed.”

19 The teachers of the law and the chief priests looked for a way to arrest him immediately, because they knew he had spoken this parable against them. But they were afraid of the people.

 

 

Rejection Doesn’t Mean Worthless                                                                                           Luke 20:9-19

            1.  Rejection hurts

            2.  The one rejected helps

 

I had never ridden with a real estate agent, looking for a house, ever in my life.  My dad was in the car too.  Watertown.  Three years ago.  Where would my parents live?

 

Lots of homes we looked at, admired.  Then the agent . . . there’s one I’m saving.  Into the driveway we pull.  My thoughts remained a secret, but avocado green.  The house was painted avocado green.  We walk inside, and in the kitchen, fake brick and on the far wall, fake stone.  Into the bathroom—pink tub.  I don’t know why I felt what I felt, but my first impression?  This isn’t very nice.  Rejection.

 

But the more we looked, the more Dad admired the quality of construction.  The care put into the house.  The good buy.

 

That’s where my mom and dad live right now.  It’s still avocado green and the tub is still pink, but it’s beautiful.  A blessing from the Lord.  In so many ways, perfect for them and for our family, for the children and grandchildren who come to visit.

 

But in my little mind, for some brief moments, I had rejected it.  Clearly, rejection doesn’t always mean worthless.

 

It may mean nothing more than that the one rejecting has overlooked the true worth.

 

But when we are rejected, that’s often not the first thing we think.  When someone isn’t interested in hearing us share the truth of Jesus, are our first thoughts, “Oh, I’m sad to know that they are overlooking true worth.”  When rejected, for whatever the reason, very tempted we are to assume that what has been rejected truly is worthless.

 

What a temptation for Jesus.  Rejected, over and over and over again.  And not by an ignorant home buyer.  By the professionals.  The head priests.  The religious professors.  Those old and wise.

 

Who had seen, who had heard of what he had just done.  It was Holy Week.  A short time after Palm Sunday.  Jesus had cleaned out of the temple those making God’s house a market place.  “By whose authority are you doing this?” the leaders of the Jews did ask.  In other words, “You have no right.”

 

Jesus did what he did because it was right.  God didn’t want his temple used in that way.  Jesus represented God.  Jesus was God.  Jesus had God’s authority, but to walk those leaders carefully through the real problem, that they were regularly rejecting God’s authority and not just in the person of Jesus, Jesus asked them by whose authority John the Baptist had acted.  “Well, we don’t want to admit he was from God, but we don’t want to say he wasn’t, because then the crowds will hate us.”  Uuuh, we don’t know.

 

This is the moment when Jesus told his story.  A story about how rejection hurts.  But it wasn’t first about the pain felt by the murdered son, whom the owner of the vineyard loved.  It wasn’t first about the pain of the other three servants who were beaten.  The story was not first about the upcoming crucifixion and pain to be felt by the Son of God, rejected by wicked leaders.  The story was about the pain surely to be felt by those who rejected.  The wicked vineyard farmers would be destroyed.  The owner of the vines was going to kill them.

 

Rejection may appear to hurt the one who is rejected.  Rejection truly hurts those who reject. 

 

These religious leaders, given responsibility for the care of God’s building, the church, had decided that they didn’t want this stone, Jesus, in their building.  They didn’t like his ability to uncover their secret sins, their love for men’s praise instead of being committed to do right no matter what people say; their desire to appear Christian while having thoughts and actions very different; the pride ready to see specks in eyes of others while missing the plank in one’s own.

 

So they rejected this stone.  Now, did this stone begin to cry because no one liked him?  Jesus could have cried, but only because those rejecting one day would be condemned by the stone for whom they had no time.  Forever crushed, broken and scattered.  Ruined.

 

Rejection hurts those who reject.

 

Have you been rejected?  Have you served a family member with patience and faithfulness for months and years, yet this individual returns to you not appreciation and love but rejection?  Rejection of you, but maybe more, a rejection of the Lord himself.  You begin to wonder, “Does rejection mean I’m worthless?  Does rejection mean that the truth, the Lord is worthless?”  Have you tried to witness to a stranger, to a friend, but after their rejection you wondered, “Is the Lord’s truth really true?”  When others spend their time seeking first earthly joys, “Is Bible study really as valuable as I was led to believe?  Is seeking first God’s kingdom before my own financial progress or athletic fame or educational advancement or physical happiness . . . is seeking first God’s kingdom really the best?”  When you look to live a life that honors the Lord but see others living differently, can you begin to question?  Do you wonder if their rejection means that your love for God is worthless? 

 

So easily we can consider rejecting Jesus ourselves.  Maybe they’re right.  It would make life much easier, to become like them.  In fact, I wouldn’t be rejected anymore.

 

So much we crave the approval of men that we may change our behavior to gain it.  We may listen to the worthless words of our friends.  What then?

 

What then?  Had my initial rejection of that house carried the day, my mom and dad would not have it.  If my rejection of the house had carried the day, who would have been hurt?  The house?  That which had been rejected?  No.  Me!  I and my family . . . we would have been the ones hurt.  Separated from blessing.

 

To be tempted by the conclusions of the world, that rejection by the world means that Jesus is worthless and then to begin living like the world does, is not to hurt Jesus.  Rejection hurts the one who rejects.  The Jewish religious leaders.  Those rejecting truth spoken by Christians.  You and me, when we are drawn to those rejecting and decide to love him less.

 

When we decide that Jesus, the perfect stone, is not important enough for us to follow wholeheartedly, even if we are rejected . . . with sadness the reality, “The stone the builders rejected . . . he on whom it falls will be crushed.

 

Me.  My rejection will hurt me, forever.

 

Yet the one rejected is so quick to help.

 

I didn’t share my first impressions about the avocado-colored house with the real estate agent.  I didn’t share my thoughts with my dad.  I didn’t say anything to the house either.  Though if I had, what could my words have done to the house?  Would it suddenly have been come less well built, less well set-up for a grandpa and grandma expecting many visiting grandchildren, have less of a nice little workshop for my dad to do his woodwork?  Had I shared my words of rejection with the house, they would have done nothing to the house.

 

Have we with our words and actions communicated a sense of rejection toward Jesus?  No doubt.  The question for us now is whether our rejection changes reality.  Has our rejection made Jesus worthless?

 

Witness a love that persisted even in the face of rejection.

 

Love first in a story.  Fire and brimstone could have rained on Jewish leaders immediately.  But Jesus takes time to tell a story.  Of an owner so patient, giving the wicked chance after chance.  Of a God so patient, giving sinners chance after chance.

 

But you’re right.  This story ends with words of judgment.  I don’t know if any of the Jewish leaders were brought to repentance through Jesus’ words.  They would be crushed by the stone they rejected.

 

Yet even in those words of judgment, a gem bringing comfort to you.  “The stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone,” the best stone.

 

You see, the question is, “If I have treated Jesus as worthless, for me is he now worthless?  By my rejection have I made him worthless?

 

How silly.  Rejection doesn’t change who Jesus is.  In fact, the stone so rejected has become the cornerstone.

 

Do you know who were called cornerstones?  Leaders of groups among the people of Israel.  Corners of God’s people.  The important ones.

 

Whatever you feel you have done to your Lord, you did not succeed in making him unimportant.  You haven’t succeeded in making him not a leader.  You haven’t succeeded in making him someone who no longer can help.

 

In fact, the stone the builders rejected became the leader stone.  The stone the builders rejected took on himself a responsibility.  A responsibility to act for those he loved, the world.  The stone rejected became with his actions a leader for the world.  A leader who refused to change his behavior even though rejected.

 

The day on which Jesus told his story was a day or maybe two after Palm Sunday, and three or maybe four before the day of Jesus’ death.  Early in the week, rejected.  Later in the week?  Kept going.  “If we are faithless, he will remain faithful, for he cannot disown himself” (2 Timothy 2:13).  He kept walking to his death, to help you.  Taking your rejection, taking our caving and fear in the face of rejection, he placed it on his shoulders, his neck bent under the weight.  His heavenly Father crushing and pummeling, abandoning our dear Savior. 

 

Yes, in doing this, our leader was saving us from our enemies..  He, the leading stone, attacked sin.  He grappled with guilt and after enduring hell itself, now says to you that your sin has been paid for, your guilt removed.  The leader stone attacked Satan.  Every trick to get Jesus to doubt, no doubt including the rejection by so many, was ignored.  Tempted in every way, just as we, but without sin.  He beat . . . yes, crushed the head of the devil.

 

And death.  Jesus, the leader stone, attacked death.  Instead of being afraid, he willingly died.  Instead of trembling at the thought of his last breath, he calmly gave up his spirit.  He must have known something.  How could he face such an enemy with such peace?

 

He did know something.  Resurrection.  Just a matter of time.

 

The stone rejected became the leader stone.  A leader taking the lead for the world.  Standing in and fighting your enemies for you.  Sin, paid.  Satan, crushed.  Death.  Raised from the dead, that because he lives . . .

 

Well, he is worthy of your confidence, your trust.  He has died to forgive you.  He is raised to assure you that you are innocent.  Believe and you will live.

 

But he was rejected.  But being rejected doesn’t mean something is worthless.

 

What joy.  What perspective as I prepare for rejection by others.

 

When you tell of Jesus, when you share how he is the last thing one would want to reject, when you express your joy in worship, giving your money, sharing the Word, sacrificing time, cleaning the church, disciplining your children, having devotions, being patient with the struggling, assisting those in need . . . when you share with others how everything can be lost except Jesus, you may very well hear or just see in the actions of another, “That’s not for me.  You’re crazy.”  But you’re not!  Their rejection does not your living for the Lord and the truth of his Word worthless.

 

When you live out your love for Jesus and are patient and loving with a family member, you may very well witness others return your love with an “I don’t care,” or unkindness.  They laugh at you for being so nice.  You, laughable.  But you’re not.  Rejection does not make your love worthless.

 

When you feel that you have yourself fallen short of God’s expectations, you now know the punishment is deserved, and despair makes you think that your Savior’s payment for sin is now erased.  But it’s not.  Rejection does not make Jesus worthless.

 

Those rejecting certainly can hurt themselves.  But even then, the one rejected works to help.

 

Jesus did just this for you.  What an honor to do the same . . . to remember that rejected does not mean worthless.

 

Amen.